Loving A Widower. a web log by writer Julie Donner Andersen

Loving A Widower. a web log by writer Julie Donner Andersen

Helping wives and girlfriends of widowers since 1997.

The “Fits and Begins” Of Dating The WIdower

Although my guide “PAST: Ideal! PRESENT: Tense! Insights From One Woman’s Journey since the Wife Of A Widower” primarily addresses ladies hitched to widowers, i actually do periodically get emails from women that come in severe committed relationships that are premarital widowers aswell. These souls that are brave to share with you one problem in keeping: struggling to conquer the “fits and begins” initiated by their previously widowed boyfriends whom emotionally withdraw through the relationship whenever grief is triggered.

The next is a typical example of “fits and begins” from the present page we received:

“i’ve been dating a widower when it comes to previous couple of years. Their spouse passed away 5 years ago. He claims these people were happy and everybody else we meet informs me just just how wonderful she had been. Initially, he dove appropriate to the relationship and then we appeared to be the match that is perfect. Read More